tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post998554732723275591..comments2024-03-28T04:01:57.283-07:00Comments on Solo Lisa: Vivir Solo Es EsoLisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08149426274951453722noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-12431629633215930222009-06-23T19:38:55.886-07:002009-06-23T19:38:55.886-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-11695481417342358302009-06-23T19:38:25.645-07:002009-06-23T19:38:25.645-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-37345511284124483562009-06-23T19:37:50.905-07:002009-06-23T19:37:50.905-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-16760311941159988432009-06-23T19:37:27.090-07:002009-06-23T19:37:27.090-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-3528283537901575502009-01-08T00:53:00.000-08:002009-01-08T00:53:00.000-08:00You go, girl!!You go, girl!!daddylikeybloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00333537839820475066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-76869434667215561592009-01-07T19:15:00.000-08:002009-01-07T19:15:00.000-08:00best outlook on love of any sort!although The Big ...best outlook on love of any sort!<BR/><BR/>although The Big Love remindind me of that show and then I was like you as a multi-stepford-wife???<BR/><BR/>but I was more amused than confused.Kathryn Blairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17699588552581085331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-30780469422238396632009-01-07T13:44:00.000-08:002009-01-07T13:44:00.000-08:00amen to thatyou never know where a perspective lik...amen to that<BR/>you never know where a perspective like that might take you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-63160983250023301892009-01-07T13:17:00.000-08:002009-01-07T13:17:00.000-08:00I spent nearly 7 years single. Not that there wer...I spent nearly 7 years single. Not that there weren't crushes or opportunities, but that travel & other things so held my focus that I refused to get really involved with anyone. It was really freeing. & then, when I decided I was ready, I started dating in earnest via the online thing. Before you knew it, someone worked out. Very strange how that worked...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-40061804194011692732009-01-07T00:13:00.000-08:002009-01-07T00:13:00.000-08:00You go girl!Whatever happens will happen.You go girl!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Whatever happens will happen.Secretistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17963591945943390622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-28616695793879773022009-01-06T22:47:00.000-08:002009-01-06T22:47:00.000-08:00That sounds like a good resolution. I've never fel...That sounds like a good resolution. I've never felt love...makes me probably more bitter than those who have loved and lost! Ha! Even my sister said her boy is the "one" but it's really about proximity and making it work. Sigh.Rebecca, A Clothes Horsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12224914134360638396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-23992976927688523942009-01-06T21:19:00.000-08:002009-01-06T21:19:00.000-08:00Lizbeth, thanks for the support!Lizbeth, thanks for the support!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08149426274951453722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-81823265662590924652009-01-06T21:18:00.000-08:002009-01-06T21:18:00.000-08:00Sal, thanks for the support!MizzJ, *sends hugs*.Em...Sal, thanks for the support!<BR/><BR/>MizzJ, *sends hugs*.<BR/><BR/>Em, I'm totally with you on avoiding the bad boys and all the drama and stupidity that come with them.<BR/><BR/>Wendy, LOL!<BR/><BR/>CC, I'm not giving up on love per se! I'm just giving up on the hang-ups associated with it--being anxious over not having it, constantly looking for it, etc. Who knows, maybe a flirtation this year will turn into something more serious, and one day I'll wake up and say to myself, "Holy crap! This is love."<BR/><BR/>Fabutopia, very true, but I've given up looking for now as I've said. :)<BR/><BR/>AsianCajuns, amen to that!<BR/><BR/>Anthea, I'll probably be at VFW this season covering the shows for Stylefinds, but it'll be lonely without you. :(Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08149426274951453722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-91661940838043631442009-01-06T21:14:00.000-08:002009-01-06T21:14:00.000-08:00I'm not sure if you should necessarily give up on ...I'm not sure if you should necessarily give up on love altogether, but the fact that you've chosen not to focus on it is never a bad decision - It's probably healthier and will definitely free your mind so you can take on more things that you enjoy.<BR/><BR/>Personally, I LOVE(D) being single... Even though I'm not right now. Embrace it, take advantage of it, and enjoy it!!lizbethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07884987469157408442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-21726999726891065602009-01-06T20:58:00.000-08:002009-01-06T20:58:00.000-08:00"If these moments add up to something, like small ..."If these moments add up to something, like small grains of sand at the bottom of an hourglass, then it will have been the most gradual of miracles"<BR/><BR/>so beautiful!!!! <BR/><BR/>while i do believe you will find true love again one day, i also believe that you always find love when you least expect it :)kokostilettohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11406130365661558648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-66981925172320546772009-01-06T17:21:00.000-08:002009-01-06T17:21:00.000-08:00Awwwww Lisa! Don't worry it will come around when...Awwwww Lisa! Don't worry it will come around when you least expect it. Who needs men anyway..lol they seem to just complicate things. I am trying to figure out if there are more or less opportunities here in Numazu. I think that most of the "gaijin" I have met here have been idiots. But you never know..I'll keep ya posted. Hope you're well :) Miss ya. Are you going to Vancouver Fashion Week?Antheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07953406915880608105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-84632242762491223442009-01-06T17:16:00.000-08:002009-01-06T17:16:00.000-08:00I love it! (not Big love it ;)I think it's a wise ...I love it! (not Big love it ;)<BR/>I think it's a wise move- and I know exactly what you are talking about. I think all of us would feel less anxious if we focused on the moments rather than just the future.AsianCajunshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03509266779848974387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-14859460493735892872009-01-06T14:39:00.000-08:002009-01-06T14:39:00.000-08:00The less you look for love, true love comes knocki...The less you look for love, true love comes knocking at your door. Putting yourself first is sometimes the most important and then everything will just fall into place :)<BR/>But I do love BIG Love... (i just watched Sex in the City the Movie again this weekend)Fabutopiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17910115718634928897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-13775889615456800682009-01-06T14:35:00.000-08:002009-01-06T14:35:00.000-08:00Oh L don't give up on real love bc I will have to ...Oh L don't give up on real love bc I will have to do the same! Let's keep the faith :)<BR/><BR/>xoxox,<BR/>CCCouture Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07401719580947285891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-65228113260158209122009-01-06T11:18:00.000-08:002009-01-06T11:18:00.000-08:00Living in the moment is good. In the future, I hop...Living in the moment is good. In the future, I hope to do that.WendyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00985099019783464580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-60522460851728432302009-01-06T11:15:00.000-08:002009-01-06T11:15:00.000-08:00I'm 30 and happily married so I have to say I comp...I'm 30 and happily married so I have to say I completely agree with your outlook on love. You're not giving anything up either. Mature, deep love is what lasts. It takes time to build up a foundation of trust and respect. <BR/><BR/>Chris Rock jokes, "a happy marriage is a boring marriage". However, this is only because there isn't the cheating, fighting and breakups associated with more passionate and transient relationships. I wouldn't trade my loving, stable husband in for all the bad boys with deep issues in the world. This is so much better and it's worth waiting for.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-86751448000190325312009-01-06T10:00:00.000-08:002009-01-06T10:00:00.000-08:00While I do agree with your resolution, you know as...While I do agree with your resolution, you know as we've discussed that I also think it sad to give up on that ideal of happiness. Though atm I feel it's all a sham - so long as he doesn't cause you pain, that's probably good enough.MizzJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00770130641318501232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5806776700133051213.post-37388961891907547802009-01-06T09:44:00.000-08:002009-01-06T09:44:00.000-08:00I say RIGHT ON. As someone who is a chronic worrie...I say RIGHT ON. As someone who is a chronic worrier - and knows it to be a total waste of valuable energy - I salute you for casting off your anxiety over singledom. Living in the moment is a worthy goal for anyone, and I hope you are able to embrace it and savor each day as a rockin' single chick!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com